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Updates on life

2010-10-08T09:57:00.000-07:00

Yup, real life is okay, started college, doing well etc. There's a few bullies and catty gossipy people in my class I noticed so I'm going to learn from last year and stay far away from them.

As for internet life, I managed to get all my hacked accounts back, when that was finished I thought it was going to be all over, then the whole of rmvxp gets hacked and it's like... wtf. o.o
We don't find out who the hacker is, but we're back now. After lots of drama (including a deacon-lookalike and a banned member, and also some "democracy" problems) we managed to come back.

Next thing is that people have been bashing RMVXP a lot for not being "drama-free", I think it's not nice thing to do. I personally think the administration at RMVXP has been doing well (considering the past of it) and I think our drama mostly stems from people who join RMVXP when a bit of drama occurs, get involved, say or do things that make it worse, bash staff when this happens, then leave when drama dies down with no intention of staying for any other reason.

Every single RM community is plagued with drama from time to time, to think that any community cannot get drama, inside or outside of IRC and Forums is highly unrealistic. If we could prevent drama we'd have none, but the fact is, that being a socially-involved admin means you cannot please everyone, appeal to everything, make everyone happy, sort all conflicts, and forgive or allow everything without breaking your own moral codes, if you break moral codes of your community, you attract "certain" members (which usually makes your site a notorious and unenjoyable place for many). Otherwise no community would have problems.

RMVXP's actual problem is that they are a fine site, but the same people are the people causing the stink every single time, but they are not breaking actual rules, but they are dis-settling the community by bringing up subjects and nick-picking flaws that they actually don't care about. An example of this is posting negative threads in public. So while they may not be actual trolls, they are troublesome members, and while admins may point to an actual effective drama free solution, they will take the one that humiliates, insults, or hurts people in staff (or outside of it) because it is more effective to their cause and is more "honest".

I personally only think this is a temporary phrase and it will be gone soon.

In communities, if there is no drama, the site is either too small to have drama, or people who would actually make drama are somewhere else. But what do I know?

I got my blog back ;)

2010-09-08T04:54:00.000-07:00

Lets show this image instead;

I will be getting my other accounts now.
Thanks. :)

Funniest thing ever

2010-08-03T08:30:00.000-07:00

I just checked hbgames.org on proxy, apparently they thought it was me who made that staff application on RRR... I found that funny because it just goes to show that they don't know everything. That application, which was not even made with my actual account or ip address was an impersonation of me by Deacon, which he even confessed himself. I bet they didn't even view the profile or even know why it was banned. LOL. I love how smart the hbmonsters are.

Come to think of it, someone else who was their friend thought I was the one who entered #hbgames and got banned... I say this is untrue, because as far as I know, chinese whispers always comes up with a distortion from the truth. And wyatt was never my friend either, no, he was an an acquaintance.

I think I'm going to post more thoughts on them on this blog. At least it is truth and not assumption. Heck, it's not like they can do anything about it anyway. I am also logging everything that comes out of moog, boon, and runaway_bro's actions specifically, so when they say they are not trolls, I will simply use their spamming and trolling antics as proof. See, nobody is reputation proof on the internet.

It's also funny how they continue the topic even after it's locked and changed my avatar and username... just shows what was said to them obviously hit home since they have made me more of a spotlight than ever ;). Wyatt even has an edited quote of me and some petuti said "Good luck finding a better forum than ours", no luck needed, it's too easy.

I concur, they are trolls.